My best friend forces me to move out into an apartment with him but I don't want to

2021.10.20 12:34 MaMaMatthias My best friend forces me to move out into an apartment with him but I don't want to

For the last year my best friend (M/27) wants to persuade me (M/24) to search for a new apartment and move in with him together. We both are still living with our parents and are studying at the moment and both have part-time jobs. The problem is that I don't want to move out of my parents place as this would put even more financial stress on me because of university and I have a great relationship with my parents and their house is big enough that we don't really clash into each other. In addition to that, they are always telling me that I can stay until I have my degrees.
The problem with my friend is, that he is a very emotional guy and sometimes calls me, telling me that he wants to end it all and that he was thinking about killing himself and that he has no clue on how to continue on with life. In the last 2 years I tried everything to help him to find what he likes and helped him to apply for jobs, but he never does that, but instead is telling me that we both need to move out to progress in life. The thing is that I am very happy how my life is going as I have a plan in mind on what I want to ro later on. He has also been quite depressed about not finding a girlfriend, whereas I am in a very loving relationship. Which leads to another problem, because everytime I only briefly mention her, he gets kind of pissed and aggressive and tells me how good my life is and that everything is a piece of cake for me, which it isn't.
He is currently going to therapy, but there he is only talking about how bad he feels about not having a girlfriend and doesn't really talk about the real problem, which in my opinion is that he might suffer from depression and shouldn't depend on other people.
I feel like all his hopes on a better life lie on me living with him. When I talk to him about moving out alone, he gets very aggressive and kind of tells me that I don't want to support him and that I need this change as well and that moving out alone is no option because it is stupid.
On Thursday we will have a talk again about this topic and he will tell me again that we need to move out together, but I don't know how to finally tell him that this will not happen. The thing is i am always there for him and try to push him to become a better version of himself, but I just don't feel like doing this 24/7 by living with him.
I definitely want to support him, but I need to look after myself as well as I have a lot of problems that I need to deal with myself...
TL;DR: best friend who might suffer from depression forces me to move out with him and to help him progress in life, but I don't want to become his carer 24/7...
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