2021.12.04 20:25 AnonVomb 5’3 male, tired of teased. Advice for height surgery?
So I’ve made several previous posts on other sub threads about me considering height surgery.
I am a 5’3 male and am in my mid 20s. I feel that society puts a huge requirement stigma on height especially for men. I honestly am not sure how else to be happy until I obtain this height surgery. Dating in-person and online is very difficult (girls always want a 5’7+ male, I am always an instantly rejected), I’m always seen as a kid (even though I have a full beard, dress well, clean hygiene, good job, etc), my self-confidence plummets at times going to places (feel like I’m instantly judged for my height), I feel that I can’t make any lasting true relationships because no one wants to hangout with a 5’3 kid, have been bullied/teased for my height ever since I was a kid (I was 4’11 in 8th grade while everyone else was 5’2+ in middle school and continue being 5’2 in high school while everyone else became 5’6+).
I know there’s going to the savior comments suggesting that “height is not a big deal”, “be confident”, “girls don’t care about height”, “be yourself”, but 99% of the time those commenting are either a 5’7+ male, or female (girls don’t experience this height discrimination at all IMO).
My next plans are to either: 1. Save up $60k+ to safely do the height surgery with a great reputation doctor in the US, Korea, or Japan. I want to do both tibea + femur lengthening to get 4+ inches atleast in order to finally (thank god) become 5’7 and seen as acceptable. 2. Somehow take out a loan and do the height surgery soon (within the next year) — I work remotely so my money should not be impacted. The reason for doing it soon is because I feel that this height is the main thing impacting my happiness, social circle, dating, and most importantly mental health. Thus I want to do anything possible to get it done. 3. Save up $20k and go outside of the US for quick cheaper options (why is the US so damn expensive), heard turkey is good and cheap.
And most importantly, If there is anyone who is short and is a male (I’m talking about 5’7 and under males, not 5’10 “short” guys) and HAS DONE height surgery, how was the process for you?
Again I can’t see myself continue living 5’3 in the US as a male, it’s almost a shunned-away-from-society sentence IMO.
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2021.12.04 20:25 Classic-Sea-6034 Does the Spiritomb catch glitch still work?
2021.12.04 20:25 BlueSky1877 Can other fruit and veg be grown into shapes like how square watermelon is grown?
2021.12.04 20:25 ozzieflan Bad Habits | Ed Sheeran | loop Pedal Cover, if you enjoy the video, please consider subscribing!
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2021.12.04 20:25 iam4real Technically correct
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2021.12.04 20:25 Zeaus03 A Canadian commute.
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2021.12.04 20:25 swiftycowboi 19[m4f] lookin for snaps
2021.12.04 20:25 Competitive_Flan_216 What exactly is the relationship between Goku and Luffy?
2021.12.04 20:25 mcgirttheruler My beard cheat codes (no oils, waxes, butters)
I left this as a comment on another post and figured I’d share with more. I’ve never been active in beard communities but want to share these two little tricks.
I have a pretty substantial beard, I’ve grown it for about 8 years with trims here and there and only recently got my cheats locked in.
1 - Small Talk by Bed Head This isn’t even a beard product but my wife shared hers with me and I use it daily now. It’s a leave-in conditioner and you apply it to a wet beard before drying.
2 - I’m not sure what it’s called but it’s a round brush with a hair dryer built in. Using a hair dryer in conjunction with a round brush never worked for me and the hair dryer would always make my beard look worse. Outside of those two products, a regular wash/condition in the shower and I’m good to go. Hope these tips help some folks.
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2021.12.04 20:25 wholelottahate19 Robert plant is not a huge fan of "Stairway to Heaven". He prefers songs like "Whole Lotta love" and "Black Dog"
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2021.12.04 20:25 BullOnBanannaSt At this point, where do you see Dogecoin by the end of next year?
2021.12.04 20:25 WorldlyLavishness Is this suppose to be good makeup?
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2021.12.04 20:25 irrelevantname1776 Silver Lining to Below Average Turn-In Rates
Three weeks to write an essay with multiple levels of scaffolds and opportunities for revisions. 30% of my students turned in anything.
Silver lining? I get to feel like Oprah on the grade book.
“You get a 0, and you get a 0, and you get a 0!!!”
Or a 50, depending on your schools policy. (Not touching that debate on this one). 😂
Happy weekend everyone!
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2021.12.04 20:25 MuuaadDib Need some guidance for a purchase
So, I scored a PS5 (shh it's a secret from Santa) and decided to purchase a new TV to make it more awesome. I am so confused at this point, I thought all I would need to do is go down to Costco, get a TV and voila I am done Merry Freaking Christmas. Nope, I am finding out way more than I ever wanted to on this, it is a vast and crazy landscape now.
Now enough background and rambling, my questions are this:
2021.12.04 20:25 cogitoergosum11 I made chart of the Price-to-Backing Ratios and APYs for Major Olympus Forks
| Hector seems to be the cheapest one right now in terms of price-to-backing:|
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2021.12.04 20:25 HumanWorth7216 Best civilian gear
2021.12.04 20:25 Prudent_Solid_3132 What if the German Empire won ww1, but the Nazis still rose?
Now I know you’ll be asking, how if the Nazis rise was due to the Germans loss in ww2? Here is a possible compelling scenario.
The spring offensive of 1918 succeeds, knocking the entente out of the war.Ok great the German Emprie has reached its goal of all the lands they want conquered.But at thei point the home front was done for fighting and they were starving and hungry.The Kaiser is unpopular now due to all the death and destruction,similar to what happened to tsar Nicholas. The communist uprisings of 1919 happen still but are put down.a few years of instability goes by and the Nazis have been formed.They still rely on the fear of the Soviet’s,and even through digging reveal the Kaiser is responsible for the Soviet existing,as he had sent Lenin back to Russia to cause revolution.This causes the public to turn against the Kaiser and after a revolution, the Nazis are in power with Hitler at the helm.How will the future go now.Germany still has national pride as they won the war, but were tired of their current government due to the Kaiser’s incompetence.The now new Riech is way bigger than the original.Would ww2 even still happen as it did, or would something different happen.
I know the Germans winning Almost certainly means no third Riech, but if there was a way, this would be it I think.
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2021.12.04 20:25 deathfrights not the biggest anyone has been but my first high tip order! easy to locate items and great communication. nice neighbourhood too, no wonder they tipped so well haha
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2021.12.04 20:25 untold_nostalgia Splitting the Skies. [OC]
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2021.12.04 20:25 Mad_Season_1994 First Star Wars comic I've ever bought arrived today!
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2021.12.04 20:25 TheTruthHurts16 Why are Revenants one of the least played classes?
I'm a returning player that hasn't played in quite a long time. I was thinking of maybe making a new guy and then buying the new expansion when it comes out. I currently have a Chronomancer and a Holosmith but never reached end game with them.
I always thought the Revenant looked cool... but I just wondered why they don't seem near as popular as most of the other classes according to the play stats.
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2021.12.04 20:25 ExpensiveMusicTastes I’m tired
2021.12.04 20:25 11B-1P-CIB What do you like or dislike about the movie "American Psycho?" Favorite line or scene?
2021.12.04 20:25 AlexGeneri Concurso
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2021.12.04 20:25 Kaptin_12 PC Playing With Xbox One?
Is it possible? I just tried to play with my Friend on Xbox One and it Didn't let him join despite our crossplay being on. Is this a bug? or is it Impossible to play with Xbox One While on PC
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